Meet two local wedding DJs who know all about the importance of having a good soundtrack when you’re tying the knot, from first dance to celebrating all night long!
Jarryd Sunkel
Starting out
At the age of 10, I DJ’d at my mom’s 40th birthday with a pair of tape decks and an old antiquated amplifier. I’ve always had a deep love for music, which naturally led me to DJing. At age 16, I started out playing at smaller events and private parties, but weddings quickly captured my heart.
Why weddings?
Weddings are special because every moment tells a story, from the first dance to the last song of the night. Unlike other events, a wedding is filled with emotion, love, and connection, and music has the power to amplify that. I love seeing the dance floor come alive, watching guests of all ages let loose, and being part of memories that couples will cherish forever.
How do you help couples pick the best songs for their special day?
I work closely with couples to understand their taste, personalities, and the atmosphere they want for each part of their day. I provide guidance, suggest songs that have timeless appeal, and create playlists that flow naturally from the ceremony to the reception. My goal is to ensure the music reflects their story and keeps their guests dancing all night.
Most requested songs
Certain songs are almost wedding staples! “Perfect” by Ed Sheeran is a popular choice for first dances, while classic party hits like “Mr Brightside” by The Killers or “I Gotta Feeling” by Black Eyed Peas always get the crowd on their feet. Every couple, however, has their own unique touch, and it’s always exciting to discover their personal favourites.
Music trends at weddings
One trend I’ve seen is a blend of nostalgia and modern hits. Couples love mixing timeless classics with the latest chart-toppers to cater to guests of all ages. Another fun trend is choreographed dances for the bridal party or surprise group dances. It adds such a lively, memorable element. I must be honest, the great sing-alongs are still the best.
Advice for couples
Pick songs that feel authentic to you as a couple and to consider the journey of the day – ceremony, dinner, dancing. Don’t stress too much about filling every moment; trust your DJ to read the room and create the perfect vibe. And most importantly, include songs that will make you laugh, cry, and dance like nobody’s watching. It’s important to compare like-for-like when evaluating DJs. Lower-priced options often reflect differences in experience, equipment quality, and overall reliability. Professional-grade gear and industry experience play a significant role in ensuring a smooth, uninterrupted event.
A special musical moment from a wedding that stood out to you
I have so many incredible moments that I would love to share. I’m definitely going to leave that for my upcoming book, where I will share some of the funniest stories, moments, and more that I have experienced over the past 21 years.
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Steven Heyns
Starting out
Music has been part of my life for as long as I can remember. When I was 15 years old, I was DJing house parties, playing on whatever sound equipment I could get my hands on. As the years went on, the events became more formal, and eventually I found myself booked for weddings.
Why weddings?
Weddings have a magic you cannot fake. The emotional side is what pulls me in every time. Seeing a groom burst into tears when he sees his bride, or watching a couple hold each other during their first dance, reminds me how powerful music can be. You get to help shape moments that stay with people for the rest of their lives.
How do you help couples pick the best songs for their special day?
Choosing music for a wedding can feel overwhelming at first, so I try to make the process simple, relaxed and enjoyable. I start by getting to know the couple, their personalities, the atmosphere they want and the type of day they imagine from start to finish. I encourage them to share any music they love. A do-not-play list is just as important.
Most requested songs
There are definitely songs that used to be almost guaranteed choices for certain moments. For a long time, songs like “Canon in D” by Pachelbel and “A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri were the go-to options for ceremonies.
Music trends at weddings
There has been a strong rise in nostalgia over the last few years. Songs from the late 1990s and early 2000s are popping up everywhere, and they create huge reactions because people grew up with them. Couples are also choosing more personalised ceremony music, often acoustic or modern tracks that hold special meaning for them.
Advice for couples
Communication is the most important part of choosing the right music. Talk openly with your DJ about what you love and what you don’t like. Share playlists, favourite songs, special moments and even guilty pleasures. My advice is to choose music that feels like you, not what you think you should pick.
A special musical moment from a wedding that stood out to you
One of the most memorable moments I have experienced was at Haycroft Farm last year. For the couple’s first dance, we created a low fog effect across the floor. The coordinator set up helium balloons with mini balloons inside, which were released during a specific moment in the song. I have done a thousand first dances, but this one felt magical.
www.theweddingdj.co.za